I have been bitten, and bitten hard, and this is the first time it has happened to me, though the bug comes through once every four years. I am talking about the Olympics. I cannot quit watching. We TiVo the competitions just incase we fall asleep before they are over, then watch them the next morning. Even my two boys, who never want to do anything in the mornings except watch cartoons, hop in the bed at about 6 AM every day and and say, “Daddy, can we go in the den and watch the Olympics?”
There are a couple of reasons I have fallen in love with them this year. First, I think that my age affords me the wisdom to appreciate what they are and what they stand for. I could not understand the scope of these games when they were in Atlanta in 1996 and actually bragged that I did not watch a single minute of them. I thought they were boring.
Secondly, I just spent nearly 2 weeks in Asia and many of the people I met were Chinese. Going to a region and living there for some time has a long term effect on me; I always pay attention to anything that pertains to a place on earth where I have lived. China has always fascinated me, now even more so.
Finally, it has made it much easier to watch this year because of some of the American athletes. Last night, the American girls gymnastics dominated, taking gold and silver. But it is none other that Michael Phelps, that freak of nature and discipline with the vampire teeth and fish-like swimming ability, that has brought the Olympics to life for me. The man is just not normal.
I find myself rewinding it over and over just to watch how much better he is than every other swimmer there. And I keep thinking of the other greatest competitors in sports history; Muhammad Ali, Michael Jordan, Larry Bird, Carl Lewis, and Greg Louganis. And I am afraid that it is easy for spectators like myself and maybe even you, to look at an historical athlete like Michael Phelps (now considered the greatest Olympic athlete in history because of his record number of gold medals) and assume that he just has natural talent, that he is predispostioned genetically and physically to be a great swimmer, that he just shows up at the Olympics, hops in the pool and slays everybody. Nothing could be further from the truth.
To become the greatest swimmer and the greatest Olympic athlete in history, Phelps pays a serious price. His life consists of eating, sleeping and swimming, and that is all. This monster eats 10,000 calories a day and works it all off in the pool. His coach pushes him to the point of complete exhaustion, when he cannot go any further, then he pushes him more to see what kind of muscle and energy reserves he has. This constant regiment of training, being pushed to the point weakness and collapse and continuing, has given him a stamina and endurance that has simply enhanced whatever natural ability he was born with.
The spiritual lessons simply jump off the screen at me every time I watch Phelps take another gold medal. In ministry, I meet so many people who are lazy and apathetic. Granted, they are not the rule, but the exception, but some seem to want a successful ministry, a large congregation, a gigantic salary, a loyal staff, book deals and a mega-church as their first pastorate. They want a giant record deal and sold out concerts at stadiums. They want to copy the “success” of other ministers, bands or churches, but they are unwilling to pay the price. Maybe they sleep late or stay up too late, maybe they download sermons from sermons.com instead of digging into the word for their own messages, or maybe they just spend their days reading a thousand blogs and reading a dozen books on church planting, instead of paying the price and getting out into the community, meeting people and investing time in the lives of humans.
I get this often. Young men want to know how Crossroads became so big or successful, or how I got the preaching opportinities I have. I am always honored to help encourage and mentor young ministers, and the first thing I always tell them is that I have been doing this for 21 years. Two decades! If all they are looking for are the 3 secrets to ministry success or a network to plug into for speaking gigs, then I am the wrong guy to talk to. There is no such thing as a shortcut or a fast track, and even the churches or ministries that may seem to gain “quick success” have always paid a price over the years before they gained regional or national recognition.
Books and blogs are great (you are reading one right now). But I never have to break a sweat if all I do is read, memorize, and try to copy what soemone else has already done. It is not just good DNA that makes us “successful” as Christians and ministers. It is paying the daily price of saying NO to all the other distractions that fight for our attentions and affections, and saying yes to the disciplines; prayer, the word, accountability, community, generosity, forgiveness, and kindness.
One parting thought…is success even really the goal? What is success anyway? Today’s successful evangelist can be tomorrow’s washed up, divorced has-been. The goal, if you ask me, is faithfulness. To my wife, my kids, and my God. Michael Phelps is a success because Michael Phelps has been faithful. Faithfulness is the means to an end, and Jesus Christ is the end.
So let’s quit wishing we could be as good or big or successful as the minister, pastor, or athlete that we love to watch, and let’s be the best, most faithful person we can be, remembering that in order to be that person, we mut pay the price daily, and our faithfulness will pay off, not in gold medals, but in crowns we can one day lay at the feet of Jesus.